VegettoEX wrote:MegaBossMan wrote:I'd hate to backseat moderate because that's not my job
But it's
my job!

(Well, it's one of my many jobs...)
Agreed. Seriously. Enough. These endless quote trains concluding with "lol" is unacceptable. If you're not willing to have a reasonable conversation, we're not willing to read what you have to say. In this case, you can't have your cake (get great responses from people that agree with you and back up your opinion) while eating it, too (being a hyperbolic jerk to everyone). It's very simple: be an awesome person! We want to read awesome contributions from awesome people, not lame-o antagonistic bullshit from lame-o people. Be sure to
review the rules you agreed to - thanks!
One would think you can come to
Kanzenshuu and have an intelligent, reasonable conversation about the violence in the show, how it's been adjusted over time, its impact on the scenes, etc. Let's prove
that stereotype about us right!
Well to be honest and with all due respect I think it is more lack of respect between members than me trying to keep cheerful, I don't think I am particularily triggering any hostility, had already many conversations with various Kanzenshuu members in here and other areas and no one ever got upset with my posting, or it was settled in a minute and we could keep exchanging our respective opinions without further drama and even ended up laughing about it and just having a good time discussing our favorite series despite disagreements, it's only with user Mazingerdestro in this thread here that name calling started to appear and such, calling for moderation at some point, but that's alright with me and I hold no particular grudge against him, I hope the same goes with him and that we can communicate better in the future because I think he's a nice and fun folk, as debates and opinions can also be fairly well expressed without writing 3 pages of argumentation,
maybe my approach can be a bit blunt but I do not think I broke any rules from the forum rules, or maybe the one saying we can't just say “I agree” or “I disagree” but why couldn't we say so, if someone words it better than I ever could or if the disagreement is so strong sometime all you want to do is just say you disagree without explaining further, would that be unconstructive, yes, non-civil or non-polite or justifying a ban, I personally don't think so but of course the moderation has the final call on it, but please do consider not everyone has the time or energy to counter each opinion with a well and constructed post, that would be kind of elitist wouldn't it, in which case we would be doomed having not to reply at all at times,
However I agree I did got a bit caught in the moment and probably shouldn't have replied to someone subtlety telling me and my topic to **** off, but please I am sure you can understand there is not only huge thesis and light-hearted discussions even if a bit heated can take place in the forum, as long as no one takes offense and if I've offended anyone I'm really sorry about it as it was not my intention, let's hope the series keep on getting better so more and more can get along and keep on discussing what matters at heart,
Cheers lol