Planetnamek wrote: ↑Sat Mar 20, 2021 4:58 pm
No offense but you come off as a bit naive here, just because you've never personally witnessed hate does not mean it does not exist in your state. Not all hatred is obvious shit like KKK members burning crosses, sometimes racism is way more subtle and structural in nature like denying someone a loan just because of their race or a security guard only following minorities around the store.
Chances are anyone saying racism is "blown out of proportion" is someone who has never experienced any real hardship in their entire life.
https://www.seattlemag.com/article/refl ... sm-seattle
What do you mean by "personality"? Do you mean by celebrating their sexuality publicly and not backing down when they get harassed in public? Because I see nothing wrong with that, frankly the people with the worst personalities i've come across have almost all been straight white guys.
Naïve on the subject? You speak as if I don't have and didn't grow up with African-decended family and Asian-decended best friends. I might not know everything that ever happens, but I'm not completely out of the loop. I care about my friends and family, and more importantly, I care about all people. So I do pay attention to this kind of stuff. Now, my uncle
does seem to think things are racist toward him when they aren't (No, Uncle, they didn't fabricate bad gasoline to give to you becuz of your skin color. Your boat stopped working cuz your wife accidentally drove it into it into the shallow area.), but everyone else is pretty much in agreement there's never really been any racism toward them. But I suppose it's possible they all just got lucky, or maybe they just all happen to not be people who think negatively and jump to conclusions. My uncle is a negative thinker unfortunately. But Washington was a very racist place when he was growing up. It's hard to break away from that. Like how a person who's cheated on has trouble trusting future partners.
Saying that a security guard keeping an eye out for a specific "race" is "racism" is a big jump from what would otherwise be called "stereotyping", which isn't racist. That particular security guard
could be racist in this scenario, but there's nothing to go on that proves hatred is the cause. Doesn't make it right, but it's not fair to call something it's not, or to assume negative things so unnecisarily.
After reading thru that link, I don't see your point. All I got from it was that there are apparently some (probably old) African-decended Seattlites who are racist and like to complain that they're not seperate enough from "the white people", and seemingly about their youth not being "Black" enough. Like when people say "You're not a REAL Black person!". But that's just racist, mean, and stupid. Let people be who they want to be. I've seen all the hatred people like Raven-Symoné got from "the Black community" for trying to be herself... Just stop it, old people... :/
Calm down. By "personality", I mean "personality". As in, if they have a bad one (I.E. being a jerk), then they're bad regardless of their gender/sexuality/"race". I've NEVER been harrassed in public, unless you count people coming up to me and the guy I'm with to tell us how
happy it made them, or how awesome it is, to see us holding hands in public, since at the time, I think it was less common. This was over ten years ago.
And.. I'm pretty sure those "straight white guys" you dislike so much are actually "bi white guys". One of my best friends is one of those. So super-hardcore Christian that he can't even admit that he likes guys...except for slightly, that one time he had to admit to me that the anti-gay stuff he said was toward himself, not toward me. The anger is usually from people who are either angry at themselves and are taking it out on others, or angry at others for not being angry at themselves (they TRULY believe it to be a bad thing...). And all those "straight" people who say "being gay is a choice"? Well, they're bi...and they think that by "
chosing who they have sex with" they're "
choosing their sexuality", which obviously is silly. But in addition to that, they think that all others are like them in that regard, so they think that "gay people" are like them except that they choose the opposite side. I actually feel more mad about that for the
actual straight people that those in-denial bi's are
making look bad. But even more-so, I just feel really bad for
them... That one friend I mentioned is FAR from the only in-denial bi-guy I've been friends with. They come out to me, and then the next day tell me they lied. Again, and again... They join the Marines in hopes that they
die becuz that's what they think they deserve...... All this just makes me want to cry. No-one shoud be their own worst enemy...
Melee_Sovereign wrote: ↑Sat Mar 20, 2021 7:31 pm
It's so obnoxious, dude. I have a friend who's the same race as me. One of his favorite things to do is walk in on me watching a TV show and be like "this show has no black people smh" even though he only took a couple of seconds to actually watch the show. I'm like, dude, you're not helping the problem at all. You're just stirring up drama and controversy.
It's like people desperately want to maintain their victim mentality. There's power in it I guess. People like Al Sharpton make a living off of doing this BS.
Yeah, I hear my uncle does that stuff (the victim mentality) at work to get out of doin stuff he doesn't want to do. But then again, that's just everyone at Boeing, being as lazy as possible. I'm glad I don't have to work there anymore. I can't handle being the only one who tries, and having to fix everyone else's laziness. No more... D':
But you're right. Stiring up racial drama for shits and giggles needs to stop. Everyone just needs to do their part to take one little step each day to cut that stuff out of their life. Like Morgan Freeman said: "
Stop talking about it. I’m going to stop calling you a white man. And I’m going to ask you to stop calling me a black man. I know you as Mike Wallace. You know me as Morgan Freeman. You’re not going to say, ‘I know this white guy named Mike Wallace'.". It's only a man-made categorization anyway. Each person is uniquely themselves, and their name is the most important means to distinguish between them and others. Race
can be a helpful categorization, but it's not being used in a very helpful way lately...