I have not been dishonest and have acted with a sincere belief in the issues at hand.pepd wrote: Wed Jun 08, 2022 12:45 am Julie and others, Please reconsider this constant dishonesty. It harms more than your average malicious troll, and is the reason I and probably others stay away from these discussions here. Most people here agree with the sexism in DB being...well, there. There is no need to disproportion it and invent malicious intent everywhere. You wont change anyone's mind this way, because the only ones willing to ignore it are some of those who already agree with you, and to the rest you alienate; which is a shame because there are some less agreed points that are worth a discussion, but not like this.
I'm not responsible for how a select few men (I'm assuming genders here) choose to react to "wow, this sucks I hope it stops" and "Toriyama knows better" and "multi-million dollar companies know better" and "the industry and society are extremely corrupt and the first step to changing that is acknowledging it."
I generally like Dragon Ball. I roll with a LOT of the punches when consuming mainstream media because of how engrained this shit is on every level. My feelings on Dragon Ball have of course changed over the 24 years of my fandom. I am not the little girl I was in 1998. I am not the teenage girl who joined these forums in 2006, either. I'm not the nihilistic woman from 2016-2019. Views on art change with new experiences and I'd like to think a new perspective added to the discussion will elevate it and make it better. Unfortunately, I can't do that without uncalled for backlash that ignores facts and experiences that anyone can learn about from either being a woman or reading about the experiences women face.
I'm honestly tired. Okay, I did just take melatonin but that's not the only reason I'm tired. I'm tired of fandom not being particularly welcoming or self-reflecting. Also, again, melatonin. Good night.