Aim wrote: Sat Jul 24, 2021 9:37 pmTo vent. Nothing that I said was performative,
Plenty of people have said they don't like the transformation design, in the (already existing) relevant topics; what we have here, however, is making a whole new thread (in arguably the wrong forum, presumably so it will get better traffic) dedicated basically to declaring to the world that '
Dragon Ball Super is dead to me because of this transformation, RIP'. I couldn't think of a more apt term for what that is, so I called it 'performative negativity'. Perhaps you'd prefer 'unnecessarily melodramatic negativity'? Either's fine with me - I'm trying to emphasise how unnecessary the whole thing is; so long as that's understood, the specific form of words is beside the point.
Aim wrote: Sat Jul 24, 2021 9:37 pmif people can’t handle different opinions that’s on them. Trying to make other people’s issues my problem just because I made a post criticizing Super is not a good look. At no point have I suggested that no one is allowed to disagree or agree, so I’m not too sure where this is coming from as well, as you cannot fathom me making this post I can’t fathom the intense feelings I have brought out in some people with a simple thread. Honestly, it just seems as if people are looking for a reason to get heated, which I don’t have the energy. Many people agree that the form looks AF esque and the story telling consistently cannot take a step forward without taking two steps back, instead of complaining about my thread, I urge you to probably discuss the criticisms others have brought fourth.
I have engaged some substantive criticisms of the new form in the Manga thread - and therein lies my point. There are hardly
any substantive criticisms in this thread, so far as I can make out - it's a 'yuh-huh'-'nuh-uh'-fest, and I don't see anything changing that because it's basically baked into the topic premise.
That's what I'm saying I can't fathom. Where else was the discussion
supposed to go, after that premise? You don't like the look of the transformation; you're clearly Very Upset by it (whatever 'AF-esque' is supposed to mean, tossed in there like it's a self-evident truth that doesn't need substantiation). Okay, and what? You're Done With Dragon Ball Super, It's All Over For You. Okay, and what? Are people supposed to argue you back into
not being So Very Done With Dragon Ball Super? Or just agree with you that the whole thing's a dumpster fire now? What 'discussion' is meant to be latched onto and had, here?
While you may not have
intended to frame it this way, in
practical terms this thread is simply an invitation for some people to rag on something they already hate - and so they have, which about one second of reflection should tell you would also upset others who actually
like the series and provoke a response of the sort that you're having trouble fathoming. And saying 'it's on other people if they can't handle different opinions' (and going so far as to tell them they shouldn't be on a forum if they get bummed out by them), while in the same breath confessing that you can't really handle other people's opinions
about your opinions, is...similarly unreflective. Negativity invariably comes back around, and it's corrosive for all concerned.
I'm not saying any of this by way of attack; merely to try to get across that it's a real pity, because this whole thing was entirely predictable, entirely avoidable, and it doesn't seem to have done any good for anyone, including yourself. So I'm suggesting that maybe it might be better to focus on discussing the things about Dragon Ball that you still enjoy, simply because such an approach would be more likely to yield an actual discussion that you (and other contributors) might have a better chance of enjoying in turn. I'll leave it there.